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Vera Mae Fites, a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, passed away peacefully on October 31, 2024, at the age of 84.
Born on May 11, 1940, in King City, California, Vera was a beacon of love and warmth in the lives of all who knew her.
Vera shared a beautiful life with her devoted husband, Tom Fites, and together they created a loving home filled with laughter and cherished memories. Vera's greatest joy came from her family, especially her children: Ronda Fites, Tim Fites, and Ruth Fry. She was a source of unwavering support and encouragement, always celebrating their accomplishments and lifting them up during difficult times.
Vera took immense pride in her role as a grandmother, great-grandmother and great-great-grandmother, finding endless happiness in watching her great-grandchildren grow. Her eyes sparkled with joy at every family gathering, where stories were shared, laughter echoed, and love was felt deeply.
In addition to her immediate family, Vera is survived by her three children, Ronda Fites, Tim, and Ruth Fry, 9 grandchildren, 18 great grandchildren, and 4 great great-grandchildren; numerous nieces and nephews., each of whom holds treasured memories of her kindness, wisdom, and infectious spirit. She had a unique ability to make everyone feel special and loved, creating bonds that will endure through generations.
Vera will be remembered for her unwavering faith, her gentle spirit, and her selfless love for her family. She brought light into our lives, and though she will be dearly missed, her legacy of love will continue to inspire all who were fortunate enough to know her.
A celebration of Vera’s life will be held in the coming days, inviting all who loved her to come together in remembrance and gratitude for the incredible woman she was. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to a charity of your choice in Vera’s honor.
Rest in peace, Vera Mae Fites. Your love and light will forever remain in our hearts.
Tuesday, November 12, 2024
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Doughty-Calhoun-O'Meara
Wednesday, November 13, 2024
12:30 - 1:30 pm (Pacific time)
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